This is the post where I come off the worst, although I don’t think I come off particularly well in any of them. Post 2 is about EN. And there should NEVER have been another post on him, so clearly I fucked up. Big time.
Before I left for Europe, I started missing EN. I did [...]
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Post 2 in a Series
Posted in Nigel, personal, untitled series on October 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
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Goals
Posted in Nigel, personal on February 24, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
About a week ago I had this great idea to write a post on my aims and goals for the rest of the year – A sort of delayed New Years Resolution, but more focused on achievements and less on weight, smoking etc etc. Due to life getting in the way of my blogging time [...]
Nigel
Posted in Nigel, personal on February 22, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Nigel and I had a very long, open discussion tonight and have finally faced up to the mess that is our relationship.
Officially we’re calling it a break, and we’ll decide at the end of the break (we haven’t set a limit yet, but most likely 6 weeks) what we want to do from here.
Despite everything, [...]
Radical Feminism: theory vs practice
Posted in Giant Babies, Nigel, feminism, idiots, personal on February 18, 2009 | 3 Comments »
EDITED: for various reasons parts of this post have been removed. Am happy to discuss in more detail in email communication, but I’m not happy to discuss the reasons on here.
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Everyone has issues, yes? I’m included there, I DEFINITELY have issues. But sometimes when I look at the issues in my life I [...]
“Put a ring on her finger”
Posted in Nigel, feminism, idiots, personal on February 5, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
At lunch with a (male) friend recently, I was discussing problems I’m having with Nigel. My attraction to other men (not all of them, just a few!) was brought up, and my friend had this to say:
Maybe [Nigel] needs to put a ring on your finger to solve all this.
What an absolutely insane thing to [...]
Open Relationships
Posted in Nigel, personal on January 25, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’ve been reading the posts over at Bitch Ph.D. on her open relationship and it’s got me thinking about relationships.
I know I don’t agree with the ‘proper’ set up the patriarchy drums into us in regards to relationships, but I don’t know what I do agree with. I know that Nigel isn’t at the same [...]
When the RealWorld meets BlogWorld
Posted in Nigel, office, personal, tagged office on January 19, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I’m leaving this post public because I think it may actually be beneficial to have real life people read it.
Before I begin the post, I want to clarify an important point. Whilst this blog was public, it was not something that I thought would be easily found by people in my life. The few people [...]
Dating in High School
Posted in Nigel, personal on October 8, 2008 | Leave a Comment »
One of the problems I’m finding with breaking up from a 5 year relationship at the age of 21 is that last time I was dating, I was 16. 16!! Do you have any idea how big the differences are between dating at 16 and dating at 21? And flirting? BIG difference.
I know in the [...]
Moving Day
Posted in Nigel, personal on October 2, 2008 | 1 Comment »
Is this weekend sometime. Not sure what my internet situation will be like for awhile. I’m hoping to leave my computer behind and use the net connection at Nigel’s house until I have it set up, but this feels like a stupid move. I’m unlikely to want to hang around much once I’ve got my [...]
