Interesting* random story from my life. I’m terrified of annoying people. I hate being seen as an annoying person (probably because I am quite annoying ) and this influences my actions and behaviour in most situations.
I’m talking about friends here, not strangers. People in my life that I know, but am not in [...]
Archive for the ‘personal’ Category
Annoy-a-phobia
Posted in personal on October 16, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Happy?
Posted in personal on October 15, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
I haven’t started the anti-depressants yet. Since getting home from my trip (just over a week ago), I’ve been… happy? I missed everything about my life so much while I was away that I’ve been forced to conclude I actually am fairly ok with where everything is.
Dangerous Situations or Paranoia?
Posted in feminism, personal on October 15, 2009 | 2 Comments »
Over the last couple of months (and possibly longer, but most of my life pre break-up is kind of blurry) I’ve put myself in some not-so-good situations. Some have been detailed in previous posts, some I’ve chosen to keep to myself because of embarrassment at my sheer stupidity, but none have been particularly smart. And [...]
Post 2 in a Series
Posted in Nigel, personal, untitled series on October 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
This is the post where I come off the worst, although I don’t think I come off particularly well in any of them. Post 2 is about EN. And there should NEVER have been another post on him, so clearly I fucked up. Big time.
Before I left for Europe, I started missing EN. I did [...]
THAT moment
Posted in Dating, feminism, idiots, male privilege, men hate you, personal on October 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
There usually comes a moment in most new relationships or friendships where a feminist realises this new person she’s invested so much time and energy and trust etc in doesn’t view her as a human.*
It’s odd, because we know this to be true of most p-indoctrinated people. Things would not happen the way they do [...]
Post 1 in a Series
Posted in Dating, personal, untitled series on October 4, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Hello from Milan! I’m now killing time in an airport hotel until I leave to go home tomorrow. I didn’t have enough time here to actually see the city, but I had too long to sit around doing nothing. And by nothing I mean that assignment that’s becoming quite urgent and really needs to get [...]
Very Quick, Minor Follow Ups
Posted in doctors, personal on September 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Some things to say:
firstly – to everyone who is finding this blog through searches about controlling men – a better resource is ‘Why Does He Do That?“, but I hope my post is of some help to some of you at least.
secondly – to the reader who asked google “how to date a controling man” [...]
The Juiciest Gazelle is the Easiest to Catch*
Posted in Dating, Giant Babies, arsehats, feminism, idiots, male privilege, men hate you, personal on September 3, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
My cousin (we’ll call her S) is breaking my heart. She is twenty four and has a lot going for her. Except for her dickhead boyfriend. He is not something good in her life and it hurts when I think of the situation she’s currently in.
I recently found out that he has previously cheated on [...]
Over it.
Posted in Dating, personal on July 27, 2009 | Leave a Comment »
Last night coffeeguy and I went to a movie. This date had been rescheduled three times at this point. The first time he had to reschedule due to work, the second was my fault, also a work thing, and then we had plans for Sunday day and he was too hungover so it got moved [...]
