Some things to say:
firstly – to everyone who is finding this blog through searches about controlling men – a better resource is ‘Why Does He Do That?“, but I hope my post is of some help to some of you at least.
secondly – to the reader who asked google “how to date a controling man” and ended up here (if you’re still reading), the answer is you don’t. Get rid of him and find someone who isn’t a controlling arse. Or be happy on your own. Either way.
thirdly – to the reader who asked google “is it rape when i said no and was drunk?” YES IT IS. and it breaks my heart that you have to ask google this question. I blame the patriarchy that such a thing was necessary. Similarly, “is it rape if you don’t say yes?” YES IT IS. I hope you’re both still here somewhere.
fourthly – to the person who googled “fuck and rape” to end up here…. wtf? No, seriously, wtf?
I know it’s been awhile since I posted, but that happens. Regularly around here actually. I’m still seeing coffeeguy, who shall now be called C, and I’m enjoying that. Except for a few minor issues I may or may not explore later. I’m going to Italy and Spain (and Gib!) soon, and have too much to do in the meantime. And the depression is getting worse. The doctor has prescribed anti depressants to start after my trip, and I think the thought of taking them is making the depression worse. I hate that I’m so weak I need help to get through this. But there you have it. In a nutshell, the updates on my life. More (possibly) to follow.